Failures

Being honest about your failures and fuck ups, the things that you have to face yourself with, is enough to drive your insecurity through the roof and want, I dunno, acceptance I guess.  To add to that, giving the person you love a reason out is pretty horrifically painful, all you can do is sit, wait, and hope the good aspects of you are enough to outweigh the failures in your past, and are enough to make it worth trusting and loving you.